October 17, 1933 - July 7, 2020
On Tuesday the 7th of July, Peter Kilby passed away quietly in his sleep at 86 years of age. He is survived by his loving wife Barbara Kilby (Stobbs) who he shared 64 years of marriage; and his children Acton Kilby and wife Margaret Kilby, Elizabeth Spencer (Kilby) and husband Doug Stangeland, as well as grandchildren David, Thomas and Mary. He is survived by one of his siblings, Mrs Margaret Robertson (Kilby) of Prince George, BC and pre-deceased by his brothers Gordon and Thomas Acton Kilby. All of those who remain are heartbroken at the loss of a partner, sibling, father, grandfather and friend.
Adventurous, compassionate, loving and welcoming are the words which come immediately to mind when remembering Peter. To the numerous people who have shared their kind views and prayers with us at this time, we have been heartened by the thoughtful stories (some taller than others), memories and blessings (truly given from the heart) which everyone has offered.
The memories etched in our minds are that of a leader, teacher, mentor and loving man. He enjoyed a life-well-lived. Making every effort to ensure that those around him were made to feel a part of anything he was involved in, and that it was done in a way that all voices were given an equal hearing.
A devoted husband, sibling, father, grandfather and friend, a great teacher, dedicated soldier, fully committed member of the community, he left his mark on all who knew him. As he would have said; it isn't about the end, but the journey that got you there that matters most. His journey was remarkable.
Peter will be cremated and his ashes scattered at a later date. Due to the current COVID situation, the family has decided that a memorial service will be held at a later date. Once known, information will be provided in order to ensure all those wishing to share stories and remember his life may be included. In lieu of flowers or gifts we ask that donations be made in his name to the charity Marion Kilby volunteers at which is the North Okanagan - Shuswap Brain Injury Society (NOSBIS) at http://nosbis.ca the 'Donate Today' button is at the top of the page